Comments on: i fear the wrath of mothers everywhere…

By: becca

becca — Fri, 01 Dec 2006 15:37:47 +0000

I breastfeed my 12 month old son. Ever since he was old enough to have an opinion (about 2 minutes old), he would take whatever cloth I was trying to cover his head with and push it away as violently as he could. He HATES having his head covered, by anything, but especially when breastfeeding. So ya know what? I don’t cover it. It’s more important that my baby gets the nutrients and comfort that he needs than that you have a boob-free meal. I’m not going to intentionally flash you, but he’s gotta do what he’s gotta do.

By: Carl Weaver

Carl Weaver — Thu, 30 Nov 2006 19:27:57 +0000

I’m all for public breastfeeding. I think it’s unhealthy to say that the only place you can feed your baby is in private, as if it were some dirty deed or sexual act. We aren’t talking about smoking opium here, just doing something nourishing for the baby and fostering a close connection between mother and child. I think it’s a beautiful thing.

That being said, I am a little uncomfortable with it but that’s my personal issue. I used to get a little weird and worry that it was obvious I was looking away, but also didn’t want to look on. I am also just a little uncomfortable with people making out in public, guys holding hands and street mimes. but should we ban those things? Certainly not.

Well, maybe the street mimes.

By: Victoria

Victoria — Thu, 30 Nov 2006 18:18:49 +0000

I personally don’t have a problem with women breastfeeding in public, and this photo looks like she was being somewhat discreet. It’s entirely possible that she has one of those babies that don’t like to be covered. Given the fact that she originally attempted to cover herself, and was unsuccessful, I’d cut her some slack.

By: chris

chris — Thu, 30 Nov 2006 16:03:24 +0000

I’ve always been one to take the road labeled, “if you don’t like it, don’t look at it.” I don’t think other people have to live that way, but it seems like it may cut out a lot of undue stress in people’s lives.
Personally I don’t see anything disgusting or indecent about a woman breastfeeding her child and I’ve never understood the hang-ups people have about it. Besides, the woman’s nipple is being covered by the feeding child, isn’t that the dirty nasty part that nobody is supposed to see?

By: Tiff

Tiff — Thu, 30 Nov 2006 15:25:10 +0000

What exactly are you seeing that you don’t want to see? There’s no breast in that picture. She’s clearly using her shirt to cover up as much as possible.

I see more boob standing in line next to the tabloids at the supermarket than I do with a breastfeeding mother.

I love this schizophrenic relationship we seem to have with motherhood- Get out of the house! A woman’s place doesn’t have to be in the home! Have a life and a career if you want one! But don’t you DARE feed your child outside your own home or a nasty dirty public restroom… Oh yeah, and don’t ever expose any part of your breasts unless it’s for men’s enjoyment.

(I don’t have kids, but I’m really tired of the boobie double standard.)